Her heart
must have been pounding inside her chest as she stepped into that room—that
room where no one was welcome without an invitation, that room where coming
uninvited could get a person killed. But as the king heard her footsteps and
lifted his eyes to see who had dared to come into that room, his heart was
filled with compassion. When he saw the face of the one he loved, he raised his
scepter to indicate that she was welcome.
The story
of Esther reminds us how difficult it has always been to get an audience with
people in positions of high authority. Just imagine if you wanted to have a
conversation with the President. For the average person, it would be
practically impossible.
And yet, as
Christians, we have free and ready access to the highest authority of all—God
himself! At any moment we choose, no matter where we are, we can simply turn
our thoughts toward God and express our thoughts to Him, and He will hear us.
Isn’t that amazing?
With such
an amazing privilege at our disposal, we should ask ourselves, “How am I using
this opportunity?” Am I making the most of this incredible gift? Am I perhaps
using it in a merely selfish way? I heard a great question recently that I
think really helps put things in perspective—if all of my prayers were answered
tomorrow, would only my life be different, or would the whole world be
different?
Today,
we’re going to take a look at a scriptural command for us to pray for one
another. It is no hollow cliché to say that the best thing we can do for each
other is pray for each other. We’ll find out a bit more about how to do that in
Ephesians 6:18.
Beginning
in Ephesians 6:10, the Apostle Paul uses the metaphor of warfare to discuss the
battles that we face against the schemes of the devil. He makes a vital point
in v. 12 when he writes, “For we do not wrestle against flesh and blood, but
against the rulers, against the authorities, against the cosmic powers over
this present darkness, against the spiritual forces of evil in the heavenly
places.” The titles “rulers” and “authorities” refer to the spiritual
beings—the demonic beings—who are working with Satan to do battle against us.
So our
struggle is against spiritual beings and their powers, and as the old saying
goes, you have to fight fire with fire. You’re not going to win a modern-day
war with bows and arrows, and likewise, you’re not going to win a struggle
against spiritual beings with merely human resources. This is one reason why
prayer is such a vital tool in our spiritual arsenal, and it is why we need to
employ it on behalf of others.
In vv.
13-17, then, Paul calls upon us to embrace certain attitudes and behaviors, and
he memorably compares them to different pieces of armor that were worn by Roman
soldiers at that time. Then in v. 18, he ties it all together with this
instruction about prayer—“praying at all times in the Spirit, with all prayer
and supplication. To that end keep alert with all perseverance, making
supplication for all the saints.”
Let’s dig deeper into this verse with a few simple questions.
When Should We Pray?
According
to this verse, we should pray “at all times.” If we were to ask the Bible
whether we should pray in the morning, the afternoon, or the evening, it would
simply say, “Yes!” Every time of day is a good time for prayer!
Recall that
in John 15, Jesus said (and I paraphrase), “I am like a vine, and you are like
the branches coming out of the vine. Apart from me, you can do nothing!” He
meant, of course, nothing of spiritual value. We can do plenty of sinning on
our own, but to do anything good, the guidance and strength of Christ are
absolutely essential.
If that’s
true, then as people who need Jesus like a branch needs its vine, we should
never be very far removed from our last prayer, and we should never be very far
away from our next prayer. Texting conversations provide a great illustration
of what that might look like. You can carry on a texting conversation with
someone all day if you want, and yet at the same time, you can take care of the
business you need to attend to that day. But that conversation is always in the
back of your mind, and every so often you fire off another text to that person.
That’s a
great model for what it might look like to pray at all times. In the back of
our minds, we should have an ongoing conversation with God about our day, and
then every little bit, we bring that conversation to the front of our minds,
and we pray a prayer to God.
So think
about your typical day and ask yourself, “Do I have some pretty long stretches
of prayerlessness?” Or ask yourself this—“If I ate only as often as I pray,
what would my physical health be like? Would I be well-fed or malnourished?”
Well, if you endure long stretches without prayer, don’t you think your
spiritual health suffers? So, we must pray at all times.
How Should We Pray?
1. In the Spirit
When you
hear this phrase, don’t picture yourself going into a trance or some kind of
altered state of mind. The idea is to pray with the resources that the Holy
Spirit provides. What kind of resources does He provide for our prayers?
The first
resource we should mention is confidence. The Holy Spirit reminds us that we
are children of God, and as such, we have the right to come to God in prayer.
Romans 8:16 says, “The Spirit himself bears witness with our spirit that we are
children of God.” Thus, we don’t have to wonder, like Esther did, whether the
king is going to lower His scepter to us when we approach his throne. We can
thus pray with confidence.
That same
chapter—Romans 8—mentions another activity of the Spirit to help us in prayer.
Verses 26-27 state, “Likewise the Spirit helps us in our weakness. For we do
not know what to pray for as we ought, but the Spirit himself intercedes for us
with groanings too deep for words. And he who searches hearts knows what is the
mind of the Spirit, because the Spirit intercedes for the saints according to
the will of God.”
Notice how
the Holy Spirit steps in for us. We don’t always know the right thing to pray
for, do we? Sometimes, life is so complicated, we don’t even know what the best
thing to ask for is. So as we wrestle with what to even say, the Holy Spirit
assists us in the process. It may not be far off to think of Him acting like a
translator—as I’m stumbling over my words, He can step in and say, “Father,
what Tim really meant to say was…” And so, the Holy Spirit can give us great
confidence for prayer.
Second, He
can also give us content for our prayers. Notice that Ephesians 6:17 says that
the sword of the Spirit is the word of God. God’s Word is a powerful tool that
the Holy Spirit uses to shape our lives—to give us teaching, reproof,
correction and training in righteousness (2 Tim. 3:16). As the Spirit teaches
us the promises of God, we can use them to inform our prayers. As He convicts
us of sin, we can find the remedy in Scripture, and pray over it. A
Scripture-saturated prayer is a powerful prayer indeed, and the Holy Spirit can
impress those Scriptures upon our hearts.
2. With all prayer and supplication
Think of
this directive as a goal to make your prayers a “well-balanced diet.” The word
“prayer” is a more general term that could encompass anything you might say to
God—whether you’re thanking Him or praising Him or confessing sin. The word
“supplication” is a more specific term that refers to making requests.
Taken
together, these terms describe a well-rounded prayer life. If anything, I’ll
bet we’re tempted to go heavy on making requests, and perhaps go a bit light on
everything else. Or maybe your prayers are like a form letter—you always end up
saying the same things, and the only section that ever gets an update is the
request section.
This
statement from Paul instructs us not to neglect any aspect of prayer.
Reflecting on The Lord’s Prayer is a good way to find some balance in your
prayer life, because Jesus uttered that prayer in order to teach the disciples
how to pray. It can teach us, too, if we’ll reflect on it a bit and learn what
the Lord was saying.
3. With alertness and perseverance
This phrase
may surprise us a bit, because I think it paints prayer in a different light
than the light in which we’re used to seeing it. Paul’s language here is
perfectly suited to the context, since he’s been using this metaphor of
warfare. A soldier in battle must always remain alert and must persevere
through difficulty.
And
remember—a soldier in battle is precisely how Paul envisions you and me in this
passage. That observation puts the practice of prayer into an important
context. I believe we are often tempted to think of prayer as being like a perk
or a fringe benefit of being a Christian—kind of like a bonus that God tossed
into the gift of salvation.
But prayer
is no fringe benefit in the Christian life—it is much more like the
communication that occurs in a time of battle. If you’re a soldier,
communicating with your commander isn’t a bonus or something optional—it is
absolutely crucial to the success of the mission and to your own safety and
well-being.
In his book
Desiring God, John Piper suggested that many of our problems in prayer
and much of our weakness in prayer come from the fact that we have taken a
wartime walkie-talkie and turned it in to a civilian intercom. Rather than use
prayer to go on active duty for God, he says, we use it to try to call the
servants to bring another cushion into the den. We’ve turned it into something
like a call button for an airline stewardess—something we can just use to call
for another Coke whenever we’re thirsty.
We must
never forget that we are constantly under attack by the schemes of Satan. It is
in that light that we must pray—as if our very survival depended on it. We must
not let Satan catch us during a season of drought in our prayer lives. If we
truly are at war with the Evil One, why would we cut our own line of
communication with our commander by not praying? Or why would we render it moot
and useless by trying to use it for the wrong purpose?
For Whom Should We Pray?
At the end
of this verse, Paul states that we should make supplication for all the saints.
At a minimum, I’m sure Paul was telling these Christians in Ephesus to pray for
all the other Christians there in their local church. To that, we could add
other believers with whom they had personal contact, like the Apostle Paul, and
then beyond that, we could add other Christians as they came to hear about
them.
Here is
where we really get to the heart of the command to pray for one another. Our
prayers should not be all about ourselves and our own concerns. Other people
should have the starring role in our prayers—then, we can just bring ourselves
in for a cameo appearance!
That
balance may ebb and flow with different prayers. A prayer to confess sin will,
of course, be intensely personal, and it will focus on yourself. In other
prayers, you may have a very urgent personal need that receives most of the
focus. But in the bulk of your prayers overall, other people should be blessed by
being the focus of your prayers.
I would
encourage you not to simply rely on your memory to help you pray for others and
their needs. Use other tools to help faithfully pray for others. We supply
several different tools through our own church—our recurring prayer list that
we now print once a month, our urgent prayer list that we print in the
bulletin, the selected family to pray for each week. If you will make use of
these tools, they will provide you with a systematic way to pray for all of
your brothers and sisters in this church.
Praying for
each other is a great privilege and a necessary tool in our battle against
Satan. It also reminds us of the unity that we have as a result of our Lord’s
sacrifice for our sins. Whenever we celebrate The Lord’s Supper together, we
are reminded that we all have a stake in the sacrificial death of Christ; we
all have been washed clean by His shed blood. May we partake of it today with
our unity in the forefront of our minds!