Here in our
neck of the woods, we live not far from where the old Santa Fe Trail used to
cut across the prairie. I did a little research on the trail this week, and I discovered
that a number of travel diaries from that time mentioned a popular spot for
crossing the Arkansas River that is located just south of where the Ingalls
Feed Yard is today.
Many people
crisscrossed back and forth through this area, but today, apart from some ruts
in the ground and some towns located where trading posts had been, we don’t see
a lot of evidence that they were ever here. One major reason is that our area
was not their destination. They came through, but they were just passing through;
they were travelers, with their eyes and their dreams fixed somewhere else.
Today, the
Apostle Peter is going to challenge us to consider how we think about ourselves
in this present phase of life in a fallen world. Do we live as if this present
phase of life is permanent, or do we see ourselves as travelers – just passing
through this present time heading onward and upward to a better home? Your
answer to that question will make a profound difference in the way that you
live your life.
In 2:4-10,
we learned some important things about the way that God sees us. He sees us as
objects for honor because of our faith in Jesus Christ. He sees us as members
of a holy and royal priesthood, members of a chosen race and a holy nation, a
people for his own possession who are called out and called upon to proclaim
his excellencies. Now, in 2:11-12, we’re going to receive a strong challenge
concerning the way that we see ourselves.
1. What I Am—A Sojourner and Exile
Notice the
tenderness and passion in the first words of verse 11: “Beloved, I urge you.”
Peter is writing with the same love and urgency that you might use in speaking
to your children about something that’s very important. What is so important to
Peter? First of all, that we realize what we are in this phase of life –
sojourners and exiles.
A sojourner
is someone who is only in a place for a short time. He doesn’t go to a lot of
trouble to settle in, because he’s not planning to stay there forever. An exile
is someone who is living outside of his homeland, and often times, he is doing
so against his will.
The nuance
in that word gives us an interesting and provocative way to think about our
lives in this present phase. It may be appropriate and healthy for us to think
of each day of life right now as a day in which we are living here against our
will; in other words, that we would really rather not be here, but in our true
homeland, which is heaven.
Remember
how the Apostle Paul said in Philippians 1 that “to die is gain.” It is gain –
it is better than, it is superior to continuing to live in this fallen world.
In that same chapter, he also said that “[his] desire was to depart and be with
Christ, for that is far better.” So perhaps when we wake up every morning, our
very first response should be to say, with a very heavy sigh, “Oh – I’m still
here! I was really hoping I’d be home by now!”
Perhaps you
remember taking trips with your family when you were a child. Sometimes when
you were in the car and really anxious to get home, your parents might’ve said,
“Just go to sleep for a while, and by the time you wake up we’ll be home.”
Sometimes you would try that but you would wake up too soon; you would wake up
while you were still on the road. Do you remember what that felt like? Do you
remember how disappointing that was?
If I truly
am a sojourner and exile in this world, perhaps I should feel a little bit of
that disappointment each day that I wake up here. Let’s call it a holy
discontent over the fact that we have to wait one more day to see Jesus. Perhaps
that should be our first response every morning, but as Paul also taught us in
Philippians 1, that thought can and should be quickly overtaken by the
realization that we have so many opportunities to do good in the name of Christ
while we are still here. So that disappointment shouldn’t be with us all the
time, but if we never feel it, then perhaps we need to reconsider what it means
to be a sojourner and exile in this phase of life.
Now if I
view myself as a sojourner and exile here in this world, my lifestyle should
reflect that, shouldn’t it? My lifestyle should be different than that of those
who do live as if this fallen world is their home, those who have settled down
and gotten comfortable with the values of this fallen world and its goals, dreams,
and pursuits.
So here we
come to a moment for some very sobering reflection. What does my lifestyle
truly reveal? Do I live as someone who has not made this fallen world his home?
Think of yourself as being on trial defending the claim that you do live as a
sojourner and exile here in this world. Let’s call some witnesses, and think
for yourself of what these witnesses might have to say about your claim:
·
What does your calendar have to say about it? Do
you spend your time on exactly the same things as those who are at home in this
fallen world?
·
What does your storage room have to say about
it? What kind of stuff are you carting through this life, and how much of it?
If you literally had to take all of your personal possessions with you on a
trip, would you look like someone who’s just passing through or someone who’s
looking to settle down for a good long while?
·
What does your budget have to say about it? Do
you spend your money mostly on things that only relate to this phase of life,
or do you spend your money mostly on things that will yield dividends in the
next life?
I want to
ask you to give all of these questions some serious thought and reflection over
the next few days and weeks. Ask God to help you accurately assess whether
you’re living like an exile or whether you’re making yourself at home in this
world. We need His help for that kind of reflection because it is so easy for
us to fool ourselves and become blinded to the true nature of our lifestyles.
So please – do not just set this question aside quickly and easily and go about
your merry way. Ask yourself – am I truly living like an exile or am I making
myself at home in this fallen and temporary world?
Now that Peter has reminded us what we are, he proceeds to
tell us what we should do in light of that fact.
2. What I Am To Do
a. Abstain from the passions of the flesh
The whole
of verse 11 says [READ v. 11]. The Apostle Paul gives us a thorough list of the
passions or desires of the flesh in Galatians 5:19-21, where he writes, “Now
the works of the flesh are evident: sexual immorality, impurity, sensuality,
idolatry, sorcery, enmity, strife, jealousy, fits of anger, rivalries,
dissensions, divisions, envy, drunkenness, orgies, and things like these.” All
of these desires are trying to stake a claim within our hearts in various ways,
and notice how Peter describes their efforts – he states that they are waging
war against our souls.
One of the
main reasons that we might remain vulnerable to temptations like this is that
we do not appreciate the fact that we are in a state of warfare against our
souls. We know that those behaviors that Paul listed are wrong and we hope to
avoid them, but are we really doing battle against them? Are we really seeking
to crush those desires whenever we see them attempting to gain more ground in
our lives?
Just
imagine if an enemy were to openly declare war against the United States, yet
we did not even go to a heightened state of alert. Would we not be vulnerable
to attack? Would we not be foolish to dismiss the danger of someone declaring
war against us?
Then my
friends, do not downplay Peter’s warning. Sinful desires are at war against you
– the question now is are you at war against them? How do we wage this war? The
first step is to maintain lines of communication with your commanding officer –
the Lord Jesus Christ. Every soldier knows how important communication is
inside a war zone. If a soldier on the battlefield is cut off from
communication with his commanding officer, he is in a very dangerous and vulnerable
position. He cannot communicate his needs, he cannot ask for help, he will have
to make decisions from within the fog of war without the benefit of the big
picture of the battlefield and the additional intelligence that his commanding
officer has.
Likewise,
it is vital that you remain in communication with the Lord Jesus Christ. If you
do not pray daily and seek wisdom from the Bible daily, you will be in a very
weak position from which to do battle against your sinful desires. So make sure
that you keep open and clear lines of communication with the Lord Jesus Christ
through Bible study and prayer.
b. Keep your conduct among unbelievers honorable
Since Peter
has just reminded us that we are just passing through this present phase of
life, we could possibly get the idea that it’s not all that important how we
act during this present phase of life since it isn’t our true home and we’re
not going to be here forever. Think about when you go on a vacation. Usually on
vacation, you’re not overly concerned about how you look or how you act because
you’re not going to be there forever. You’ll probably never see the people that
you run into ever again, so you’re not overly concerned about looking nice or
making friends.
But
according to verse 12, we would be wrong to think that way about this present
phase of life. Here Peter writes [READ v. 12]. I don’t really have to remind
you that increasingly in our own country, we are spoken against as evildoers.
We will not embrace the popular idea today that homosexual behavior is okay,
and for that reason many people have branded us as hateful bigots. They say we
are actually doing evil or wrong by holding the conviction that we do.
How does
Peter call us to respond? By keeping our conduct honorable. We have to show
people by our actions that their accusations are not true. We have to show
people by the way that we live that we have good will toward everyone – even
toward those with whom we disagree.
I’m not
sure if Peter had this exact thought in mind, but I think we have to change
people’s minds by our conduct today because many people will no longer listen
to our words. Many people have already decided for themselves that our beliefs
are hateful and bigoted, so they won’t be very inclined to give our beliefs a
fair hearing no matter how clearly and persuasively we express them.
Clear and
persuasive arguments for our beliefs are necessary, but I think more than
anything, people are just going to have to see through our conduct that the way
of Jesus truly is the way to abundant life – life that is characterized by
peace of mind, hope, joy, and the kind of sacrificial love that Jesus himself
has modeled for us. People are eventually going to realize that the fruit of an
ungodly lifestyle is bitter and poisonous, so we need to be able to show them a
stark difference through our lifestyles. We need to be able to show them that
the fruit of a godly lifestyle is pleasant and sweet and desirable and
satisfying.
And let us
not overlook the purpose that Peter mentions for all of this – that they may
see our good deeds and glorify God on the day of visitation. That statement
seems to be a description of unbelievers coming to faith in Jesus Christ
because of the example they see in us. We have to remember that our desire for
those who disagree with us should always be that they would come to faith in
Jesus Christ.
It is not
easy to maintain that kind of mindset when people are throwing unfounded
accusations against us. It’s much easier to grow angry and bitter toward them
and to take a perverse delight when we see them face the inevitable
consequences of sin. But we need instead to follow the example of Stephen from
Acts 7. When his enemies were literally throwing rocks at him to kill him, he
cried out and said, “Lord, do not hold this sin against them.”
We must ask
God to help us maintain a tender heart toward those who accuse us of being
evildoers. Otherwise, our conduct toward them likely will not be honorable. It
will likely be tainted with anger and pride and perhaps even thoughts of
revenge. That kind of behavior is no different than their own, and thus it will
have no power to draw them toward embracing Christ as their Savior.
We are just
passing through this life on our way toward a better home and a permanent one.
But let us never forget that one of our goals for this journey is to bring as
many people with us to that better home as we can. In that sense, we are not
supposed to be only travelers through this world but trail guides, calling
other people to follow along with us as we head toward the high country to find
homes of peace and rest.