I never
thought I’d be able to say this, but it felt strange not to see the Royals in
the playoffs this year. But even though I didn’t have the chance to cheer for
them, I’ve still been able to cheer for my favorite player—Ben Zobrist of the
Chicago Cubs!
Many of you
heard about my distant connections to Ben while he was playing for the Royals
last year. Several members of his family attended the same Bible college that I
went to, so I have some connections to his family. I’m on a first-name basis
with his sisters, and I have some acquaintance with his dad, who is a fellow
pastor.
I’d be
lying, though, if I said I had a relationship with Ben, because the truth is,
I’ve never met him. Until that might happen, I won’t have a relationship with
him no matter how many of his family members I know and no matter how much I
know about him!
For all of
us, this principle holds true in every area of life—if you want to have a
relationship with a person, you have to meet him first. This principle also
holds true when it comes to God—if you want to have a relationship with Him,
you have to meet Him first!
Now, what’s
it like to meet God for the first time? Well, that really depends on who you
ask. As it turns out, you would get a very different answer to that question if
you listened to the dominant idea of our culture or whether you listened to the
Bible! Let’s talk about the different answers that we would receive.
What is it like to meet God for the first time?
Our culture—It’s like meeting a distant relative. There’s no
reason to think we can’t hit it off just fine! I can build a closer
relationship with my relative through my own efforts.
Think about
it like this—imagine meeting your third cousin for the first time. Your third
cousin is someone who has the same great-great grandparents as you. I’ve never
met my third cousins, but if I did, I don’t have any reason to think that we
couldn’t have a great friendship from the get-go. We don’t have any bad blood
between us because we’ve never even met, so it seems like we could hit off
pretty well. All that seems to be required is for me to look them up and
contact them. And as I long as I put in a little effort to stay in touch with
them from now on, maybe it could be the start of a beautiful friendship!
This idea
of connecting with a distant relative is probably the dominant way that most
people in our culture think about meeting God. They might say, “No, I’m not
very close to God right now, but if I just started praying more often and going
to church a bit more, me and God could get along just fine! We could probably
get pretty close if I just stayed in touch a bit more!”
The Bible, though, paints a very different picture of what
it’s like to meet God for the first time.
The Bible—It’s like making peace with someone whom I’ve
deeply offended. Our relationship is broken, and it can only be repaired by
God’s grace and mercy.
When I’ve
deeply offended someone, there are problems there that must be resolved before
I can have a close relationship with that person again. And when I’ve committed
the offense, I’m the one who has to ask for forgiveness. And as far as
repairing that relationship, that ball really isn’t in my court. That ball is
in the other person’s court – he has to decide whether he is going to extend
forgiveness to me and whether he is willing to rebuild that relationship.
According
to the Bible, this is a more accurate picture of what it’s like to meet God for
the first time – or to be a little more precise, we might say that this is what
it’s like to meet him on friendly terms; to establish a friendship with him. We
do learn in the Bible that we have always had a relationship with God, but
unfortunately, it has been a broken relationship – even a hostile relationship!
The Bible uses some very unflattering terms to describe what we are like in
relationship to God because of our sinfulness:
·
An adulterous spouse (Hosea)
·
A rebellious child (Luke 15:11-32)
·
Lovers of darkness and haters of the light of
God (John 3:19-20)
·
Following the spirit of Satan (Ephesians 2:2)
·
Ungrateful creatures (Romans 1:21)
·
Exchanged the truth of God for a lie (Romans
1:25)
·
Enemies of God (Romans 5:10)
The reality
of our broken and hostile relationship to God is why the Bible uses such
dramatic word pictures to tell us what its like for us to come to be on
friendly terms with God. A few of those word pictures are:
·
Moving from a state of spiritual death to a
state of spiritual life (Ephesians 2:5)
·
Being forgiven of an oppressive, unpayable load
of debt (Matthew 18:23-27)
·
Being freed from slavery (Romans 8:15)
·
Becoming a citizen after being a foreigner
(Ephesians 2:19)
·
Moving from a domain of darkness into the
kingdom of God’s beloved Son (Colossians 1:13)
·
Being crucified with Christ (Galatians 2:20)
To make sure we all understand what is necessary for us to
get on friendly terms with God, I’d like to focus on two more word pictures
that tell us what is necessary for this to happen—one from the Old Testament
and one from the New Testament.
I Need a New Heart! (Ezekiel 36:22-27)
The prophet
Ezekiel ministered during the time when the Lord had allowed the people of
Israel to be conquered and taken out of their land because of their sins
against Him. We call this “The Babylonian Captivity” because they were taken as
captives to Babylon, which was in the area that is now modern-day Iraq.
One result
of all of this is that the surrounding nations had started to really look down
on the Jews and their God. They saw them as weak and powerless and thought that
their god must be the same because he apparently wasn’t able to save them
(though in reality, God had allowed all of this to happen as a discipline upon
the people of Israel).
In Ezekiel
36, God told the Israelites what he was going to do to restore His honor among
the nations and provide forgiveness and spiritual life for the people [READ
36:22-26].
Think about
that word picture literally for a moment. If my physical heart is stone cold,
then I’m dead! My heart cannot sustain life in that condition. It is the same
with my spiritual heart, or my spirit. God is telling me as I read this passage
that my heart cannot sustain spiritual life in its natural condition. I need a
new heart, which only he can give.
And the new
heart that he gives is even a fitting place for his Holy Spirit to live! Notice
verse 27 [READ v. 27].
So here in
this passage we read a very dramatic word picture that describes what it’s like
to meet God. Coming to be on friendly terms with him is like receiving a heart
transplant! He removes my heart which is stone-cold dead and gives me a new
heart in which his own Spirit actually lives!
I Need to Be Born All Over Again! (John 3:1-7)
One of the
dominant word pictures in the New Testament for meeting God is just as dramatic
as the idea of receiving a new heart. Let’s read in John 3 about an exchange
between Jesus and a religious leader named Nicodemus [READ 3:1-7].
So
according to Jesus, nothing that we received in our physical birth is
sufficient to give us a home in the kingdom of God. God’s Holy Spirit must give
us spiritual life, which we can think of as being born all over again. We are
receiving a new kind of life from a new source, the Holy Spirit.
Don’t miss
the fact that Nicodemus was a devoutly religious man! He was a Pharisee, and
the Pharisees were famous for the great care that they took to obey God’s
commands as closely as possible. If there ever was a man who could have been on
friendly terms with God through his own efforts, it was Nicodemus! Yet Jesus
told even this devoutly religious man that he needed to receive new life from
the Holy Spirit if he wanted to enter the kingdom of God.
The
question before us now is, “How do we do it?” How do we come to be on friendly
terms with God? How do we get this new heart; how do we receive this new life
from the Holy Spirit? Well, the answer is described for us in this very same
chapter – John 3. Look at verses 16-18 [READ 3:16-18]
To receive
this new life from the Holy Spirit, here is what you must do. First, you must
acknowledge to God that what he says about your spiritual need is correct –
that if you do not trust in Jesus, you are condemned already because you have
sinned. You need to confess that you have been in rebellion against God; that
you have done things you should not have done and that you should do no longer.
And once
you have admitted that God’s assessment of you is correct – that you are guilty
and deserving of punishment – then you only need to accept the forgiveness that
he offers to you through Jesus Christ. Place all your hope of being forgiven in
what Jesus accomplished for you by dying for your sins on the cross. He, as the
son of God, came into the world, died to pay for the penalty of your sins, and
came to life again to achieve new life for anyone who understands their need
for it and trusts him to give it to them.
If you
desire to have a closer relationship with God, you must meet him in this way if
you never have before. Get on friendly terms with him today by acknowledging
your guilt to him and receiving the free gift of forgiveness that he offers
through Jesus Christ!